Friday, August 17, 2012

Crazy, silly, fun days

Our days are full of fun.  We laugh, eat, play, and roll.  That's right people...we are officially on the move!  Well, Rhett more so than Paisley.  Rhett rolls all over the house and we have to watch him all the time.  Paisley rolls about twice a day and figures she has completed her quota.  The twins are such a joy to be around these days as they are full of laughs and giggles.  Their personalities are really making an appearance.  We are now eating some cereal, fruit, and veggies and we LOVE to eat.Here are a few pictures to document what we've been up to these past couple of months.
 Rhett likes anything that comes towards his mouth.
 Paisley is still getting used to the idea, but she tolerates it well enough.
We now wear helmets for our flat spots.

 Rhett always seems to find the craziest spots to play in.
 My happy girl
Rhett loves to "read" books.


Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Happy Birthday Peter!

Today is our cousin Peter's 1st birthday!  I can't believe it has been a year already.  It seems like just yesterday you came into our lives and changed them for the better!  You really are "perfectly" Peter in every way.  Keep growing big and strong!  We hope you have a fabulous birthday and we can't wait to meet you (says Rhett and Paisley).

Friday, May 11, 2012

Mother's Day

Sunday will be my very first Mother's Day!  I cannot describe how very happy that makes me.  I always dreamed that one day I would be a mom and get to celebrate this day with my kids.  That day is now here and I can't wait to wake up to their smiling, beautiful faces.  However, I must admit that every day seems like Mother's Day.  I don't really need to celebrate being a mom once a year--I get to celebrate being a mom 365 days a year!  I have also come to appreciate my own mom much more--she is the best!

Being a mom is emotional territory!  I don't think I have ever laughed or cried as much as I have these past 4 months.  I have known more joy than I ever thought possible.  The same can be said of exhaustion--I didn't know it was possible to feel this tired all the time.  Thankfully, the fog is lifting and we can think like normal people now. 

Worry. Of course, there is always something to worry about as well.  I worry about their food, their poop, their head shape, their development, their interaction with others, etc.  I worry whether I am giving each of them the right amount of attention, love, affection, education, opportunities to demonstrate their personalities, etc.  Drew says this amount of worrying is part of the cause of my exhaustion--he may be right!  In essence, being a mom is hard work, but it is extremely rewarding!

I didn't know what love was until these two came along.  Of course, I loved Drew, but I didn't know how it was possible to instantly fall in love so quickly.  The crazy part is, I fell in love with two people--Paisley AND Rhett.  I didn't know my heart could stretch that big, but it did.  God somehow made room in my heart to love both of them at once!  I am so thankful for that and that my love for them continues to grow each day.

It is my Mother's Day prayer that Rhett and Paisley grow up never doubting my love for them, become good friends with each other, and never know a time when they do not feel their heavenly Father's love. 


Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

We have two cuties on our hands!  Sometimes Drew and I can't stop looking at them.  They are each so different, yet they make many of the same expressions.  We are now "talking" as Paisley has lots to say.  Typical girl...we can't seem to get her to be quiet, nor do we want her to stop!  She coos and grunts all day long.  Rhett, on the other hand, just grunts and squeals when he wants to say something.  They are both smiling and laughing and bring much joy into our home.

Our days are filled with the usual eating, sleeping, and pooping, but we now have time on our mat (musical play gym) and tummy time.  We also read lots of books and we like to look at all the fun colors on the page.  They are now interacting a little more with each other and play together often.

We sleep through the night!! We hope this trend will continue as they have always been good sleepers, but now we get about 9 hours at night!  Drew and I are starting to look less like zombies and more like humans again.

We are much more mobile and can travel around town to run errands, not that I run all that many errands as it is a lot of work.

I am almost back to my pre-pregnancy weight (about 8 more lbs. to go).  Unfortunately, it is all in my belly, so people still continue to ask "When are you due?"

We have lots planned for the summer months: our first airplane trip to Michigan for our cousin Peter's and cousin Hambisa's first birthdays, camping trip, trip to Charleston, SC, trip to the Villages, FL and to Mimi and Poppy's house in Lancaster, SC.  We are also going to have them baptised sometime during the summer.

Busy, busy, busy is the best way to describe our lives right now and we wouldn't want it any other way.

In deep thought.

sleeping together

Silly boy

Talking and smiling

Even when they lose, he's still a fan!

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

The first few months

Whew--time sure flies when you are having fun or busy changing diapers!  For those of you that need to see the math, we have gone through roughly 1280 diapers.  We have settled into our routine and boy do we need a routine!  Keeping up with two babies requires a lot of work, but staying on the same schedule is a must! 

Rhett and Paisley are very good babies and they rarely cry.  We have a lot of fun during the day: reading, singing, and having tummy time.  I don't think they have discovered each other yet, but that will come in time.  Drew and I are getting about 7+ hours of sleep each night (not all at one stretch, but we're getting there), so we definitely cannot complain.

We had our first road trip to SC to visit my family in early March and it was great.  We were bombarded by visitors everywhere we went and behaved wonderfully the entire time.

Rhett and Paisley are now 2 months old and growing like weeds!  They were born at roughly 4 lbs and now weigh around 8 lbs each.

Here are a few pictures from the past few weeks that we wanted to share:

 Rhett sitting with Gramps


 Lazy weekend mornings in bed

 Silly daddy always has to get in the picture

 We're 2 months old!

Our first friend (and Paisley's boyfriend), Aaron John Wilkins

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

They Have Arrived!!

 Rhett Andrew and Paisley Grace
As new parents, we are exhausted and elated to have these two bundles here with us!  Most of all, I am very glad to not be pregnant anymore!    We will post more in the coming weeks and days, but thought you might want to see a few shots of our newborns.  They were born on January 22nd at 5:16 and 5:17pm.  Rhett came first weighing 4 lbs. 10oz. and 17 3/4" long followed by Paisley who weighed 4 lbs. 14oz. and 17 1/4" long.  Paisley spent 9 days in the NICU before getting to come home with us.  Now we are all reunited and enjoying being a family.

Friday, January 6, 2012

33 weeks


Whew--time flies when you are getting bigger by the minute!  We are now 33 weeks into this pregnancy and ready to meet these two little babies.  They are both right around 4lbs. each and growing more and more every day.  At this stage they should be gaining about a 1/2 lb. per week which means that I gain a full pound of baby weight each week--not counting any other weight I might gain!

These past few weeks have been very busy.  We have had three showers and received TONS of essentials and cute items for the babies.  We have been very blessed by the outpouring of gifts from our family and friends.  I don't think these two are going to lack for anything!

Thanksgiving and Christmas were fun too.  We spent Thanksgiving in SC with the Hayes family.  It was a great time for us all to be together.  My brother, Glenn and his wife, Karen hosted the dinner.  It was great to see Karen as she has been fighting a year long battle with cancer.  Christmas was spent here in Georgia with the Scholtens clan.  It was fun to see all the boys interact and play together.  Still not sure what they are going to do next year when we add another boy and a GIRL in the mix!  We found out that Kurt and Whitney are adopting a son from Ethiopia and he will be a joy to have in our family as well.  We LOVED having little Peter stay with us (and Brad and Kristin too) as he is such a cutie and it is fun to see him grow knowing how small he was at birth.

We can't believe it is 2012 already!  My c-section is scheduled for February 7th, but I doubt I will make it that far--we can always hope!  The house is ready for their arrival, so now it is time for Drew and I to get mentally prepared for their arrival.  So, stay tuned as chaos is soon to come to this Scholtens' house!